In my last post, we explored what self-care really means beyond productivity and purchasing. Here, we’ll focus on how to practise it in everyday life. Self-care is often framed as something extra to squeeze into an already full schedule. But sustainable self-care isn’t an added task. It’s a shift in how we relate to ourselves, our bodies, and our limits. What Stops You Taking Care of Yourself? If self-care feels difficult, it can help to gently explore why. Common barriers in

The term “self-care” is everywhere, used for marketing and plastered across social media, often inviting us to spend money as a route to “wellness”. In this post, we will explore understanding self-care and what it really means considering how we can personalise the concept to support ourselves. Origins of the Term “Self-Care” Although self-care is now mostly known as being tied to wellness spaces, the roots of the concept are political and community oriented. In the 1950s,

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